We care what people say because we don’t trust ourselves

We can what people say because we don’t trust ourselves.  Its true.  Everyday you see or hear people on social media stating how so and so said this to them and how much it bothers them.  We whine and complain…it bothers us and we need to vent.  If it didn’t bother us then we’d have nothing to write about.

The older I’m getting the more I don’t care what people think.  I so wish I had that when I was younger.  I was and I still am a people pleaser, but now I am just choosier about who I want to be around and that has been huge.  I don’t waste my time with a lot of people anymore and I would rather be alone then be with people I don’t have anything to talk with.  ….Wow, I could go on and on about this, but I should make this another post.  Anyway, my point in this post is about trusting yourself.

When I was in my early 20’s I met a woman (who is now sort of famous) for a reading.  It was $50 at the time and she told me all this stuff about myself.  We talked a lot and all the typical things that psychics say were said.  Love, relationships, work.  Some it was really good and some kind of strange.    At one point she said “you are never going to be intuitive”  and I never forgot that.  It bothered me for years.   10 years after that first reading and by now I had become a healer I wound up taking the same woman’s class about intuition.   At somepoint we had a photo session and she just looked at me at said “do you know that your a healer” and that “you are very intuitive” and I just looked at her and said “yes, I know”.  I think that was the best moment of the whole class for me because I really hadn’t learned anything new in that class…it made me realize that I was on the right path and it was funny that she never remembered me and that now she had changed her tune and trying to get people to use their intuition.

When you have good intuition about stuff, you don’t care about what people think, you do the best you can for yourself because you trust yourself and the process and you know that you are going in the right direction, now matter what anyone else tells you.  You don’t listen to their comments and let it bother you.  You keep being brave enough to follow that inner voice and do what makes you happy.  You are never going to be happy if don’t learn to trust yourself.  Be your own best intuitive and when you work with someone like me you feel good about the answers because it feel right.

– N


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